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Lots of love,
k ♥
This blog is still under construction. Hope you still continue to support this blog! Looking forward to meet you guys again :)
Lots of love,
k ♥
Happiness
There is something wrong with our generation. There are a lot of sad eyes on happy faces. Sad souls on happy personalities. People are stuck in between having a strong mind and a fragile heart.
To be honest, it's okay to feel sad sometimes, but never drown yourself to it. Everybody wants change, yet nobody starts to work for it. You'll never be happy if you keep on following sad tumblr blogs, saving sad poetries in your phone, trying to make others happy when you can't even do it yourself.
No. It's not selfish to not to think of others first. No. It's not rude. No it's not inconsiderate. It's called self-love. You're putting investing too much for people you're not even sure if they're going to stay. The key to true happiness is loving yourself. You are beautiful. From the scars you've made, the tears you've cried, and the nights you almost died.
ALWAYS think of happy thoughts. Be grateful about everything you achieved. Appreciate everything (even the smallest things). Say 'I Love You' to the people you love the most. In that way, you're already defeating the demons that tries to conquer your heart, mind, and soul.
May happiness be with you, always. ♥
Confessions of a Fangirl
Being a fangirl is not easy. You may think it's easy as a, b, c's, but no. Fangirling is a tough job, especially if you're a K-Pop fan. Again, it's a job. I also repeat, it's K-Pop. K-Pop is extremely far from American music you guys usually like. From the language itself, the region it came from and its style of creating music.
Now that you know it's obviously different from each other, let me show you our "fangirl burdens" through this piece of writing.
First of all, we face a lot of discrimination struggles whenever we were asked about our favorite genre of music. Yes, we like K-Pop. No, we are not Koreans. That's it, end of story. Why do people have to discourage us about loving K-pop? Is it a big deal if we don't like your fave artist because we love our oppa(s) and eonni(es)? Why do people push us to like artists whom we don't like? We aren't bandwagons and we don't follow it. We stand for what we like and what we don't like. Just because you like this *insert genre of music/artist/band* doesn't mean you have to push people to like them. We have different tastes. Respect everyone's choices if you don't want your idols to be exiled and bashed because you, narrow-minded people. We are extremely powerful than what you think. We can stop you from using your social media accounts by just letting a single hashtag trend for days. K-pop has various sub-fandoms. Once you attack a certain fan of the group or the group itself, all of the fandoms will join in to defend this certain fan or member. Think before you act.
Second, we are not racists. How could we be one of your so called "racists", if every single race has a k-pop fan in it? Don't underestimate our ability to influence non-kpop fans because we can turn them to be one of us in a heartbeat. We possess that communication skill. @koralike_ | www.kairms.blogspot.com
Third, don't underestimate the capability of a fan to hold emotions; also their brain's memory storage of events, Hangul (Korean writing), and speaking skills. Even if we aren't Koreans, we know how to read and write it. Somehow, we are able to speak Korean words or phrases just like saranghaeyo, jinjja, and eottokhae. We can also stay up to 5:00 AM just to watch a group's comeback music videos such as EXO's "Love Me Right", BTS' "Run", and Seventeen's "Mansae". Take note, we don't watch it once, but we kill the F5 button to break certain views.
Being a fangirl is a job, with no income. Instead, we are the ones who spend money, handle raging emotions, and keep up a fansite active all at once. Fangirling is a way of life. A life out of the 'feels'of a world too mainstream to understand. Are you one of us?
The Science of Laughter
"A day without laughter is a day wasted." We laugh because we feel relaxed and friendly towards other people.
Laughing is good for the brain and it also combats depression; which is good for us teens. We usually experience extreme roller coaster of emotions and sometimes, this laugh can define many things like being sarcastic, being upbeat, or hiding emotional pain.
The senses of relief, superiority, or something inappropriate, epic or weird, are the some of the reasons why people often laugh. We have one world to live in, yet there's a giant bowl of culture in it. These cultures show different ideas of humor; what's funny in one culture might be unfunny, or even offensive to another.
Most of our brain is involved in 'getting' a joke. The left side of the brain analyses the language of the joke. The frontal part, which is associated with emotions is also active, and the right side of the brain makes the connection that finally 'gets' it.
"People who have higher IQ's (or intelligence) tend to have higher standards of humor and lower EQ's." Uberfact says. This makes happiness rare to intelligent people.
You'll know a person's laugh is genuine through his eyes. Once its eyes shows wrinkles, or even gummy smile, the happiness of a person is true.
"When a person laughs even in smallest things, that person is lonely deep inside." Psychology says. I see "laughing" this way; laughing determines the strength of a person in facing difficulties and loneliness in life. One laugh can change other people's perspective. The world is full of lonely people; maybe you're the one who's needed to cheer it up.
Let the whole world hear your laugh! :)
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